I already shared a lot of my thoughts in a comment on Kent Leatham’s piece. But I wanted to add that I’m with Tracey that I could do without a ton of intercourse, but in the case where a partner wants more time with stuff inside them, and there’s no hard penis, using toys together could be a great solution. We all know there’s plenty of penetration sex where there’s not a penis in sight, and there’s no reason to miss out on that experience just because one of the partners is a penis-haver.