I don’t keep this part of myself locked and shut off. I write about it, I talk about it, I go to Pride, I fantasize about whatever and whoever I want.

I can be attracted to people of all genders/sexes without having to fuck all those people, just as straight women can be attracted to multiple men without needing to fuck all of them.

I get that my perspective isn’t what you’re used to, but please don’t assume you know more about my feelings/needs/marriage than I do.