I wish men would go around telling everyone about it. The men who are — who are unpacking their socialization and allowing space for themselves and their friends to feel and share — are super-inspiring. Personal growth — by everybody — is awesome. I think what’s going on in Red Pill communities is something different, and not productive. My wish is for men to have more contexts for talking to each other, that aren’t based on hierarchy. We’d all benefit.

As to the question of whether any gender would do fucked up things if they had more power, have you read the novel The Power by Naomi Alderman? It explores that very question by giving women greater physical power and showing a possible future. Fascinating read.