I’m Trying to Dismantle Gender Roles, But Society Keeps Getting in the Way

Darcy Reeder
4 min readJul 16, 2018

“Lupin’s a boy dog, right?” my 3-year-old Tzivia asks me, about our fluffy rescue mutt. “Are there girl dogs?”

Tzivia and Lupin, 3 years ago (photo by Justin Snell)

I stifle a laugh and give her the sex vs. gender talk again:

“We know dogs’ sexes, but not their genders, because dogs don’t care about gender. Remember how for humans, parents guess gender based on the…

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Darcy Reeder

Empathy for the win! Published in Gen, Human Parts, Heated, Tenderly —Feminism, Sexuality, Veganism, Anti-Racism, Parenting. She/They