Not weird at all to enjoy seeing your partner orgasm.

That said, I’ve felt a lot of pressure from male partners to orgasm quickly so they can feel “good at sex.” I appreciate Shannon Ashley ’s advice to not apologize (out loud or in my head) if orgasms don’t come quickly.

Empathy for the win! Published in Gen, Human Parts, Heated, Tenderly —Feminism, Sexuality, Veganism, Anti-Racism, Parenting. She/They darcyreeder.substack.com

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