Thank you for this. I dropped it for a while to have harmony, which worked. Then I just learned that an acquaintance of ours is a surrogate. I thought maybe if I brought it up again, saying we could ask her questions, that he’d be more open to talking about it, but he had an immediate emotional response again. Bleh. I really appreciate your supportive comment!

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